About Me

Coming from a small Hungarian village, first I believed life is about working hard and struggling. Why should I learn Geography or languages, I will never get as far as foreign country.  For years, I thought my path was in business, but it didn′t really work for me. I was constantly looking for something without being clear about what exactly I was really looking for. Not having better ideas, I collected certificates and diplomas Budapest Business School, faculty of commerce, and later faculty of pedagogy, Graphologist. Within ten years, I was at an intermediate level in English. I also visited places where they didn′t give me any diplomas, such as Buddhist retreats and art film clubs.

When I received a scholarship for a 10 days International Nonviolent Communication training, I didn′t think this would turn my life upside down. After this, for the first time in my life, I found work in which I could put all my heart and soul. At the beginning, I never dreamed that I would be able to offer trainings on all continents.

Through the approach of Nonviolent Communication (NVC), I got support in finding the answers to my most important questions: how to make life worth living? How to find harmony within and with others? How to find harmony between materiality and spirituality? On a very practical level, I was able to consciously figure out when to do the dishes or respond to e-mails and when to sit down and try to find a deep unshakable peace within. I consider myself very lucky, since I can share day by day something that is the most important thing to me.

Since 1996, I have studied with Marshall Rosenberg who developed Nonviolent Communication(NVC). Since 2000, I have been training NVC as an authorized trainer of the Center for Nonviolent Communication (CNVC), and I serve as coordinator for the Central and Eastern European Centers for Nonviolent Communication. This role involves finding people across the region, helping them build local NVC teams, and training people to be trainers. For five years I was working closely with Marshall Rosenberg. 

My work takes me all over the world, bringing me a huge range of experiences working with people from diverse cultures. I have had the privilege to work in Asia, South America, the USA, Canada, many of the ex-Soviet countries, and several countries in Western Europe.

I have worked in Argentina, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Brazil, Canada, Croatia, Czech Republic, Denmark, England, Estonia, Georgia, Hungary, India, Mexico, Moldova, Netherlands, Norway, Poland, Puerto Rico, Romania, Russia, Slovakia, South Korea, Sri Lanka, Scotland, Sweden, Switzerland, Turkey, Ukraine, USA.

Besides offering open trainings, I spend much of my time working with staff and management in businesses and in orphanages. My newest project is how to train peer mediators of age 6-10. 

As a trainer, I consider my strengths and my heart to be in the areas of communication, conflict resolution, assisting people to find meaning in life, and team building.

As a Nonviolent Communication trainer, it is very important to me not to mix NVC and other teachings, to be able to offer my trainings to different type of groups (open groups, schools, hospitals, business, prisons) and to offer the whole spectrum of NVC (self expression, empathy, anger, sexuality, money, social change). My favourite topics are NVC and intimacy, sexuality, andhow to find meaning in life.

I believe in the power of our thoughts to create what is going to happen to and around us. I try to find harmony between creating and accepting reality. For me acceptance means to go beyond right and wrong while I connect with my feelings. I consider one of my greatest tasks is to accept myself.

I try my best to find harmony between body and soul and mind and I put great focus on cultivating my patience and empathy. I try to understand the deepest motivation behind every action whether it is mine or someone else's.

I am looking forward to what new interesting things life is going to bring me.

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